Testimonials
Bob:
"From pleasing to presence – now I feel what I want."
When I first came to you, I immediately recognized myself in the archetype of the suppressed lover – the nice guy who adapts in order to receive love. I was searching for recognition and affection, but deep down I knew I was losing myself in trying to meet others' needs.
Through our sessions, I’ve made a profound shift: I now feel what I want. Instead of giving from fear or insecurity, I give from genuine connection. I can now sense clearly when it’s time to stop – without guilt or shame, but with love for myself. Especially in the Temples, I could feel the difference: in the past, I would keep going until the other person said stop. Now, I know and trust when I’m done.
What makes your guidance so powerful is how you bring me back to my body, every time. Even when I arrive feeling unsettled, you tune in immediately and guide me so naturally – from a tightness in my throat to an open heart. You create the space for me to feel things I wouldn’t reach on my own, like my fear of loneliness.
I no longer see myself as the pleaser.
I’m still kind – but no longer from fear.
Jan:
A feeling of uncertainty, not being able to express myself well (at least, that was my perception), and also—who do you even talk to about emotions as a man?
These were the reasons I reached out to Denise.
At first, it felt strange—to be able to share things without being immediately judged or bombarded with a thousand solutions I had already thought of myself.
As the sessions went on, I became calmer, more at ease. I dared to open up more and share.
Denise is an honest, kind, open-minded, and professional woman who knows how to hold up a mirror in just the right way.
This experience has been incredibly valuable to me—the beginning of something new. I would definitely recommend this to others. Yes, it’s scary, but so worth it.
Thank you, Denise, and hopefully, see you again.
Frank:
“A year ago – oh no, it was December 2024 – I had my first session with Denise. I reached out to her after seven years of shutting down my heart and locking myself away in gaming and my own little world.
The first two sessions were intense. What I really appreciated was that Denise created a space where I could finally release all the deep stuff I had been holding in. That helped me start looking at myself more and more. In the sessions that followed, I kept confronting myself—my own behaviors and the habits that weren’t serving me.
Denise’s strength lies in her deep presence—she is truly there for you and sees you.
I have come back into balance with myself, my heart is fully open again,
the connections I already had with people around me have become more valuable and deeper, and I’ve met new people who have been incredibly meaningful and have touched my heart in ways I never expected.”
Remco:
“I felt really comfortable in our contact. You were calm, attuned, and always looking for what fit in the moment.
Our second-to-last session was particularly beautiful and insightful. It focused on the inner child, and I was able to see how much I’ve grown since childhood—beyond what I could have imagined. One of the most powerful insights was realizing that I couldn’t care for my child self back then, but through your questions, I discovered I can care for my inner child now.
In the days and weeks that followed, I often thought about my inner child and imagined taking him with me into the world. This gave me a deep sense of compassion for how I felt as a child.
The goal of our sessions was to feel freer and to be able to express and ask for what I want and need. At this point, I feel I’m doing quite well.
I stand firmly in myself and can clearly express what I want, both at work and in my personal life.
You also challenged me to stretch myself and helped me become even more visible. I find our sessions incredibly pleasant and always feel very much at ease with you.”
Rick:
Working with Denise has gained me so much insight in parts of me I had put away and to understand what it is to become a complete man.
Denise provides safety and support to work on deep levels. The whole journey has been a gift and I am very grateful.
Anonymous male client:
“I have been doing Denise's Liberated Lover program in recent months. The intention with which I started was: “flowing sexuality”. All my life, sexuality had been a struggle for me, both with my erection and with the fact that I quickly encountered all kinds of blockages during sex and rarely experienced real connection. My last (frustrating) sexual relationship was 9 months earlier and there was no prospect of anything new, I had no confidence in it. Sexuality felt unattainable. Something was needed, and I didn't know what.
The way Denise presented herself (she shows herself on the internet as an attractive and sensual woman, with very clear boundaries as I experienced it - I think integrity and clear boundaries are very important) woke me up, gave me new hope, and was the deciding factor in getting to know her. It was the moment of a turning point for me, it became a decisive next step. During the introduction I was deeply touched in a layer where I had never been, I registered, and the eight sessions that followed transported me in a few months to where I am now: in a happy permanent relationship with wonderful love and sexuality, deep safety, and fluid communication. My partner is so close to me, we feel completely seen by the other. She keeps telling me that she feels completely like a woman with me, that she finds me sexy and that she experiences me as a powerful man who is also very soft and shows his feelings. And I have the feeling that I don't do anything for it, I feel peace and naturalness.
This is a dream that has become reality. My intention “flowing sexuality” has been completely fulfilled. It's all me: Liberated Lover! Satisfying!
Denise has proven herself to me as someone with softness, wisdom and a deep intuition for what I need, and who also acts clearly. From the first moment in the session I felt a large and deep space of safety in which I could completely open up and show what I felt and needed. She gave exercises and tips that were completely in line with what I needed at that moment, introduced me to the “Wheel of Consent”, a wonderful concept to experience and clarify the give and take in touching and being touched, and energetically addressed the child traumas. and old blockages that were present, referred me to Tantric Dance (where I gained beautiful experiences), all this in a way that I was in a new place per session. Although the Temple she offered was not my place, it was good to be there and experience my own boundaries, and get completely clear about how I want it. And that is what it is about: I experience my own boundaries very clearly, I follow my own path.
Dear Denise, I am so grateful for your guidance. You have helped me enormously in bringing my sexuality to life. It is complete.”
Werner:
“My goal was to be able to approach woman and to feel deeply connected to my masculinity. And to be able to feel my sexual energy, without attachment to a woman.
Something shifted deeply during our sessions…
Now I feel at home in my sexual centre in connection with my heart.
I got into a deep connection with two women and I’m exploring polyamory at the moment. They love me and I love them!
I’m also deeply grateful that I got the realization that with my full awareness I felt my sexual energy and my heart at the same time during an audio practice of you. While I was in the car! And I don’t regret it. I was like hmmm is this it? Wow am I in love? I’m deeply grateful to fall in love for the first time since 18 years!
Thank you dear Denise!”
Michiel:
“The biggest transformation for me is that
I can trust much more on my feelings.
I act more from my happy inner child instead of analyzing everything from my mind, which I learned in hard periods of my life. Choosing for myself already gives a good feeling, I also get positive reflections from the people around me.
What surprised me the most, is how easy I could let go in the exercises. In the past it was hard for me to get out of my head, worrying if I did the exercise right. Even if something beforehand caused tension during the explanation, I noticed that I could be very good in the moment during the exercises.
I would recommend you to any man in my area who struggles with sexuality, confidence and self-image, who is open to investing in himself and growing.
These sessions with you have really made big changes for me, and improved my life. I'm happy with the help I've received from you, and grateful for the growth I’ve accomplished”.